The very idea that you might be busy when they call upon you is beyond a toxic person. The whole world revolves around them, after all.
Decide whether time with your sister is worth the anxiety of a possible ambush. It may very well be, only you can decide that.
If your parents continue to suggest you reconcile, you may feel inclined to take the emotion out of things.
By giving you different “versions of the truth” they are trying to manipulate how you feel about situations, and perhaps even each other.
The drive for perfection means the toxic person focuses all their attention and effort on the exterior, but they are people of little emotional substance
It is very common for people who are unable to manage their own emotions healthily, to blame other people for the things that go on in their lives.
Many survivors find that ‘no contact’ is the only option to protect themselves from the toxicity of abuse, but it leaves you feeling alone and vulnerable.
When you get into a situation where you are dealing with a workplace bully, the stress or bad mood at work does not pass.
The idea that they are perceived by the world as perfect (not their family, just by strangers) is a driving force of the narcissist’s behavior
Financial Abuse is a great strategy for the abuser to have control over you. After all, we don’t get far without money in the modern world.