How do you stop the story of doom from running through your mind every time something unexpected happens? That's what today's podcast is about.

When we are addressing triggers and trying to heal from traumatic experiences, we need to change the stories we tell ourselves. Have you ever had an extremely emotional response to something that turned out to be pretty trivial? Well, looking back at that moment, you can probably reconstruct the story you told yourself. They often go something like this:

Better not forget my bag on the bus

Yeah, you’re going to forget that bag, and it’s going to cause problems

You can’t be trusted even to bring along your husband’s things

See, you’re a failure at EVERYTHING

You are worthless!

Or at least, that’s how my brain would respond to such a thing happening. Of course, you won’t forget the bag… but it’s a rabbit hole.

So, how do you stop that story of doom from running through your mind every time something unexpected happens? That’s what today’s podcast is about.

Mags explains how you can change the stories that are triggered and create lasting change.

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Main Take-Aways

  • To change the stories, we have to address how we feel about our triggers.
  • We cannot change from a place of fear.
  • Desensitising is a great strategy, but we can’t bully ourselves in that process
  • Encouraging ourselves from a loving compassionate place means taking baby steps
  •  It also means celebrating all the progress we make

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While I may technically be the Director here at SwanWaters, my unofficial title is Healing Cheerleader! I’m a survivor of childhood emotional abuse and workplace bullying. And believe me when I say that I’ve walked the walk when it comes to healing from trauma. I firmly believe that we can undo some of the damage that abuse has done to us, and learn the necessary skills to handle life and all it brings us.

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