Survivors of abuse often struggle to set and maintain healthy boundaries. Within the abuse dynamic boundaries were unacceptable for the abuser, who will have constantly overstepped. They often view their target as an extension of themselves. As a tool to fill their physical and emotional needs, not as another individual.

That means that once we leave the abusive dynamic, we have been programmed not to maintain boundaries. We were taught that having boundaries is selfish, inconsiderate and rude.

This is not a healthy situation to be in, and so it is important to learn the skill.

The Importance of Boundaries &
How You Can Begin Learning to Maintain Them

Resilience Coach, Michael Ballard, and our own Mags join forces on this podcast about healthy emotional boundaries. They discuss why they are important, how we are affected by them. In addition, they give you some tips on how to begin practicing and implementing them in your own life.

Additional Resources

Michael was kind enough to share some super useful resources with you all. These are especially relevant if you are interested in boundaries, healthy relationships, and resilience

Michael Ballard on Udemy

Michael runs a number of courses on Udemy, including one on Healthy Boundaries for Life and Love.

 Also, check out Micheal’s YouTube Channel

The Bill of Rights

The Bill of Rights that Michael mentions in the podcast is available for download to our members. Join us today to get instant access.

we love to read your comments below

Michael Ballard
Michael is an author, speaker, trainer, and consultant. He travels the world helping people learn how to add more resilience into their lives at home, work and community. Michael specializes in helping people, families, organizations and community’s learn how to thrive with resiliency. Resilience is a process, a set of key assets, skills and beliefs that can change our lives. Resiliency can changes the quality of our journey and often the quality of the outcomes. Connect with Michael on Twitter and Facebook or check his website for more information. Michael's new book "The Gift" is due out in later winter 2016.
While I may technically be the Director here at SwanWaters, my unofficial title is Healing Cheerleader! I’m a survivor of childhood emotional abuse and workplace bullying. And believe me when I say that I’ve walked the walk when it comes to healing from trauma. I firmly believe that we can undo some of the damage that abuse has done to us, and learn the necessary skills to handle life and all it brings us.

Latest posts by Mags (see all)

Survivors of abuse often struggle to set and maintain healthy boundaries. Within the abuse dynamic, boundaries were unacceptable for the abuser.

One comment:

  1. Michael Ballard

    December 20, 2016 at 9:11 pm

    Pleased and honoured to be here. Wishing you all the best in your journey.


Leave a Reply

Concerns or Questions?

See our FAQs page or submit a question to our support team - we're here and happy to help.

Ask a Question

Subscribe to receive special offers and the latest news delivered to your inbox for free.


Your privacy is important to us and we will never rent or sell your information.


Go up