Decide whether time with your sister is worth the anxiety of a possible ambush. It may very well be, only you can decide that.
If your parents continue to suggest you reconcile, you may feel inclined to take the emotion out of things.
By giving you different “versions of the truth” they are trying to manipulate how you feel about situations, and perhaps even each other.
It is very common for people who are unable to manage their own emotions healthily, to blame other people for the things that go on in their lives.
Many survivors find that ‘no contact’ is the only option to protect themselves from the toxicity of abuse, but it leaves you feeling alone and vulnerable.
When you get into a situation where you are dealing with a workplace bully, the stress or bad mood at work does not pass.
Financial Abuse is a great strategy for the abuser to have control over you. After all, we don’t get far without money in the modern world.
Let me say this about that turn of phrase ‘the right to see their grandchild’. I think that, when they chose to be abusive to you, they forfeited any rights to your children.
I canceled plans last minute since I was just too tired. That was two days ago, since then she had been calling me constantly, and texting too.