In this Podcast, Mags talks with Aubrey Cole about her 25-year marriage, how she escaped the abuse, and what she has done since.
One of the things we survivors of abuse have in common is the inability to get our abuser to just go away after the relationship is over.
“Why did she not leave?” seems the standard in talking about abuse. We need to stop that. Why not ask “why he abuse her?” or even better “how can I help?”