Why a Flying Monkey Messes With Your Mind May 16, 2016 Mags Article, Emotional Abuse, Leaving and NC, Member, Personal Stories abuse, abuse by court, Flying Monkey, my mother does not love me, proxy abuse, secondary victimization 0 comments In my experience it has been far harder to deal with the Flying Monkey, than with the actual abuser(s). I felt far more confused, hurt and unbalanced after encounters, than I did for example in the aftermath of no contact. This content is for members only.Log In Sign up Related Articles What’s a Flying Monkey Healing Mind, Heart and Spirit 5 Ways to a Happier Mind My Mind Is Like a Haunted House